WHEN TO GET A NEW PET

People’s thoughts on getting another pet vary enormously depending on the bond they had with the lost pet, and the needs of members of the family. Difficulties can arise when multiple family members have different needs. The choice is a personal one, and if possible should be delayed until all the members of the family are in the acceptance phase of grief. People who get a new pet too soon may resent it for not being the old pet, instead of loving it for its own characteristics. Children may feel guilty or disloyal if a new pet is brought into the family too soon, and you might advise your clients that it can send the wrong message to children. Also avoid the word ‘replacement’ pet with your clients. You replace a car, not an animal.